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The Leftover Pieces; Suicide Loss Conversations
You have found a podcast about surviving life after a suicide loss, which is nothing short of devastating, leaving you not knowing how to begin picking up the leftover pieces of your shattered heart. The host, Melissa Bottorff-Arey, who lost her 21-year-old son Alex to suicide on August 7, 2016, speaks to this from her own experiences. You will hear her have honest, hard conversations with other loss survivors, healers, and mental health experts on the podcast. She also produces shorter, solo episodes where she shares her own thoughts & experiences in this journey (thus far). She explores relevant topics and asks the hard questions. Nothing is 'off limit' as she delves into all areas of this grief, such as trauma, hope, healing, self-care, legacy & stigma. Melissa believes we learn to live alongside our grief, not get over it. We can make a difference only through authentic, meaningful connections and mindful choices. For a supporter or educator, these conversations hold nuggets of awareness and shine a spotlight on suicide and grief honestly and unapologetically. As a suicide loss griever, one can find the comfort of a community and hope for a little brighter tomorrow. Melissa wants to help others, like herself, go from surviving to finding a life with meaning, maybe even happiness, amid their own leftover pieces.
[Please NOTE: This podcast is for only relational, informational, and entertainment purposes. It candidly and openly discusses sensitive and sometimes activating topics. There will be no in-depth or graphic descriptions of the method, but merely the possible mention of suicide, murder, rape, and the like. Be guided and care for yourself accordingly. Also, Melissa is not a doctor or licensed therapist, and nothing on this podcast should be taken in place of, or as, medical/mental health advice or recommendations.]
The Leftover Pieces; Suicide Loss Conversations
Let's Talk to a Medium; Soul & Spirit Mom's Healing Retreat
Today, I share a long overdue conversation...with Angel the Medium. After child loss by suicide, we need connection - to so much, other moms included, & we need a connection to our child in spirit. Many grievers look for, wonder about, &/or sit in front of a medium to facilitate that connection after loss.
I know I did -- the first few attempts didn't go well for me after I learned how to find a medium, prepare for a reading, and moreover, I finally found "my medium" (yes, once you find a fit, you should stick with them) In this episode, Angel and I attempt to demystify mediumship including discussing that he is deeply Catholic (many people assume God & spirituality do not go hand-in-hand. Untrue. They can!)
BUT THAT'S NOT ALL. Angel and his wife (mystic Medium), Lisa Dawn, are the guest co-hosts for my upcoming Mom's Soul & Spirit Connection RETREAT (Jan. 15-20, 2025). It will be an (almost) weeklong healing retreat where we integrate mediumship, psychic, and healing modalities with a fully immersive dive into soul and spirit. Come get replenished, cared for, and connected this January (and hopefully, we will partner for a yearly retreat after this!!!
Angel the Medium is an Evidential Psychic Medium &Spiritual Life Coach who is passionate about teaching, helping others. Every day, he gets to do what he loves. Angel is genuinely grateful for his gifts and loves to help people the best he can.
"I understand the challenges life can bring, and I'm here without judgment for you and your family. My role is to support & assist you to the best of my abilities. I aspire to contribute to your healing journey during our sessions...thank you for choosing to connect with me." -Angel the Medium.
Lisa Dawn sums up who should get a reading from here in a significant way:
- Anyone needing clarity on their life (any subject) | Psychic Reading
- People who want to connect to a passed loved one | Mediumship Reading
- If you need emotional, spiritual, or physical healing | Healing Session
- Anyone who wants to know themselves better, understand more about themselves, &see their path in life, challenges, talents, and skills would make a good partner. | Astrology Reading
The Retreat specifics are best read about HERE on the Retreat Page.
BELOW are the LINKS to websites for Angel, Lisa, and the RETREAT!
Angel the Medium (website)
HOW to PREPARE for a READING (by Angel)
HERE's Season 4 Ep 11 (Dr. Lenore Matthew- how to find a Medium, &...)
A great LIST of RESOURCES (from Dr. Lenore)
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