The Leftover Pieces: Suicide Loss Conversations

Letting Go of the “Shoulds”: Releasing Holiday Pressure After Suicide Loss

Melissa Bottorff-Arey Season 8 Episode 4

A daily December series offering tender, truthful support for surviving the holidays after suicide loss — with grief, grace, and gentle company.

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This is December 2, Welcome Fellow Griever

Today’s Reflection

December brings an avalanche of “shoulds,” especially after suicide loss. Today’s episode invites you to release the unrealistic expectations the world places on grieving hearts — and to honor the truth of where you actually are.

Quoted or Referenced In This Episode

“Grief never ends. It just changes shape.” — Anderson Cooper
“What punishments of God are not gifts?” — Stephen Colbert

A Gentle Closing Reminder

You don’t owe December a performance or a former version of yourself. Let today be honest, gentle, and yours.

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